Let's talk NICE GUYS!

Are you a nice guy?

Well I came across this interesting read in AskMen.com where they were talking about nice guys. It's pretty true... I know alot of nice guys myself and have also been in that "zone" until i came across "the game". Well frankly there's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, except the fact that you don't get laid, you end out living in your parents basement till you're 30 because everyone steps on you to climb up the social (and corporate) ladder, you have no "real" friends and don't have the guts to take risks and speak your mind in fear of hurting someone or loosing a friend. There's really nothing wrong with it... not to mention that some people can't imagine themselves being known as an ass or having a bad image. Seriously... there's nothing wrong with being in the "friend zone" of the girl you have loved your whole life, while she goes out with an ass that you know will screw her life up... Nope it's not wrong, and therefore you should just not continue reading this post if you're fine with that. 

*Good bye Mr. Nice Guy! It was nice to meet you *

Alright back to business. Frankly I have nothing wrong with nice guys, well other than the fact that their trying to be "nice" all the time. But seriously, I really believe in improving one's self. Everybody should be given an equal chance to fight for their rights and what they believe in. And I stand by one theory, that is, anybody is capable of anything and that any guy can get any girl he wants! (with the right guidance of course!) 

For the record, I'm not here to tell you to be and ass or a jerk or what not. I'm just encouraging you readers not to be a pushover and that there is more to you than there really is. Again like many of my previous posts, you are not the only "Nice Guy" out there and yes many girls DO like nice guys, it's just your job to get them to NOTICE YOU FIRST before they can like you.

Think about it! Here's the article from AskMen.

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For the longest time, we have had to keep our mouths shut. But now you’re in the company of men.

The "Nice Guy"

Historically, there is no greater kiss of death than being labeled a “nice guy.” Sure, it’s great when you’re 10, sporting your Sunday suit and your mom is calling you nice. However, when you’re a full-grown man trying to make his mark at work and get his way with the ladies, the last thing you ever want to be known as is the nice guy. But why, Dean? Why is being a nice guy so bad? More than likely, if you’re asking that question, it’s too late and you’re sweet and soft. But here they are, the key concepts of life that nice guys will never understand.

Your Back Was Made For Walking 

Gentlemen, here’s a little piece of information: Women are genetically inclined to walk all over men. (Ladies, if you don’t like that, remember, you are in the company of men.) Men, the onus is on us to defend ourselves. Most of what you think of as nice is really you being a pussy. Maybe it’s always calling her rather than putting it on her to call; maybe it’s letting her stand you up without any protest. The more you bend over backward for her, the more you’ll be expected to -- and with no reciprocation or appreciation. Realize that you can be a confident, desirable male without being a slave in waiting.

Women Want To Be Objectified 

Nice guys tend to be sensitive and emotional; sometimes women want to be strictly physical. She wants a man who is decisive enough to say he wants to have sex. If you wait for her to initiate this, you may as well take her home to your bad boy buddy. Be an asshole to her just to be an asshole? No. Be confident because you’re a man? Definitely. The reason women like the bad boy is because he is not afraid to say what he wants (which is her). She likes to know that she is  physically desired more than she likes to hear your sonnets and love poems insinuating that you care. 

You're Seen As A Pushover

It’s not just her, it's also her friends (and your friends) who see you as a pushover, and that growing opinion and impression is reinforcing her distaste for you. You’ll end up being her best friend and everyone’s doormat. Being the nice guy will leave you hearing about how another jackass broke her heart (after she gave him the best sex ever) and it will leave you in an entry position forever. Not to mention you’ll be the guy who’s always helping people move, listening to everyone’s problems and never having anyone reciprocate your efforts.    

Man Up

Your strategy is now your identity. You thought you were being nice, when in fact you were becoming the “nice guy.” Nice guys will never understand that standing up for yourself, objectifying women and ending your status as a pushover will be the key to success in the bedroom, the boardroom and life in general.
 
I’m Dean Cardell and I make no apologies.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_400/449_in-the-company-of-men-what-nice-guys-will-never-understand.html

Fixing Unifi!

Alright here's the deal... I just got unifi installed and got all excited over it! Epic!! Went on installing the wireless settings for my laptop, uncle's laptop, brothers laptop... and when it came to my dad's laptop, we couldn't detect the unifi network! After trying and trying and restarting and restarting... things didn't get better... especially it being an old underpowered machine, the startup time takes about 5 to 10 minutes, which frustrated me even more!! Hence...

Yeah... I wish...

Anyway I went ahead and did some research which brought me over to this dude's blog, which reveals some security flaws with unifi. Check it out here! This dude knows all the shit about unifi! Except when it comes to the latest firmware 7.09 for the D-Link router. 

Like seriously I spent 3 hours medaling with the shit trying to use it as a bridge to my previous router, but naaaahhhhh... doesnt work with the latest firmware. REMEMBER: ALWAYS BACK UP YOUR SETTINGS BEFORE TRYING ANYTHING!

Well let's cut to the chase... I noticed this on my dad's laptop wireless network center 

- The capability of your network adapter does not match the requirements of the network

I figured that it's probably my the computer's network adapter just ain't "canggig" enough to handle N-wireless settings and that I had to buy an external network adapter. Luckily, I'm a cheapskate and don't want to give the tenants of digital mall that hundred bucks or so, therefore I gave it one last search before giving up and I came across this in LYN!

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1) Login to http://192.168.0.1/ via a LAN cable.
Username: admin
Password: telekom (the password could be blank)

2) Click "Wireless Setup" on the left-hand menu.

3) Click "Manual Wireless Connection Setup" button.

4) Go to "Wireless Network Global Settings" section.

5) Untick "Enable Auto Channel Selection" checkbox.

6) Set the "Wireless Channel" number to 11.

7) Click "Save Settings" button.

Your router will reboot and it'll take a while, i.e., 2 to 3 minutes.

Once it has come back online, you should be able to detect the wifi and connect to it.

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And Waaa-LAaaa!! It works! My dad's computer can now use Unifi!!

For those who faces a similar problem! Do not fear, salvation is just 2 minutes away!

Enjoy!

What could 4000 dollars do for you?

Here's a thought... Have you been spending your money wisely? If you had a lump sum of cash, what would you do? When was the last time you made an investment that really paid off? And in how long did it take to mature?

Have you ever heard of the term 

“Let your money work for you”?

Financialrich.com says, “If you desire to become rich, you must let your money to work for you. We can’t become rich by working hard and saving hard. We only can become rich by investing, that is letting your money to work for you. You can always ask the rich how to become wealthy. The rich save and invest not save and spend.”

Hmm sounds pretty much like an entrepreneur!! Let’s name some famous entrepreneurs here...

Oprah Winfrey, a television host, actress, producer, and philanthropist, best known for her self-titled, multi-award winning talk show, which has become the highest-rated program of its kind in history.

Walt Disney, a film producer, director, screenwriter, voice actor,animator, entrepreneur, entertainer, international icon, philanthropist, and founder of the Walt Disney Company.

Steve Jobs an American business magnate and inventor. He is the co-founder and chief executive officer of Apple Inc. Here's an epic picture of Steve Jobs with his 1984 Macintosh.

Clement Cheng or better known as GapNap to some, a Malaysian entrepreneur who started off selling guitars and music equipment in his blog site (www.gapnap.com) and has formed one of the most well known music shops in Malaysia, Music Master.

What did these people have in common? They all worked their asses off and had to invest tons and tons of time, sweat and money! But no one in history can compare to the great Georgina Kelly!!

WHO THE F*** IS GEORGINA KELLY????

This overly under-rated entrepreneur has invested a mere 4000 dollars and has received worldwide recognition. This includes over 135 million YouTube views, a nomination in the MTV O Music Awards in the same category with the famous hip hop artist 50 Cent and even featured in a Jay Leno show. And her investment has paid off in a mere three months since the investment.

INTERESTING EH?? But who the hell is Georgina Kelly??

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Here is what Georgina Kelly has created!

Yes that’s right!! Mrs.Black paid USD4000 to a record label, ARK Music Factory, to write and produce a single accompanied by a music video. On the 10th of February 2011, the single “Friday” was released on YouTube and since then has made many accomplishments.

- Receiving over 135 MILLION views on YouTube

- Black appearing on “The Tonight Show with Jay Leno”

- Peaking at number 58 on the Billboard Hot 100 charts

- Making it to the top 50 in Australia (#40), Ireland (#46), New Zealand (#33)

- Nominated in the MTV O Music Awards for the Favorite Animated GIF with 50 Cent and Bert

- Parody of the song played on Hitz.FM every few hours

- Recently announced that the Cast of Glee will be covering “Friday” in their upcoming episode

Don’t you think that’s a 4000 bucks well spent??

And that it all paid off in a mere 3 months!! DAMN!! Compare that to Paris Hilton’s “Stars are Blind” which only has 1.6 million YouTube views and no other achievements other than peaking higher on the charts… (don't get me wrong, I personally think that it's a good song and I really do like it a lot)

Wouldn’t you agree that this is just pure genius? Imagine creating this little monster rising star with just four thousand bucks… Imagine the possibilities with more?

Makes me think,

what have I REALLY DONE WITH MY MONEY…